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French 75

July 18, 2014

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When I think of weddings, one of the first things that come to mind is champagne… the toasts, the bubbles, champagne flutes – so romantic right?  In honor of wedding week, I wanted to provide you with a classic champagne cocktail recipe – the French 75.  The fun of champagne with a dangerous little twist!

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French 75

  • 1 1/2 oz gin
  • Juice of one lemon
  • 1/2 oz simple syrup
  • 2-3 oz champagne or sparkling wine
  1. Combine gin, lemon juice and simple syrup in an ice filled shaker.  Shake for a good 30 seconds until frosty.
  2. Strain into chilled champagne flute and top with champagne/sparkling wine.
  3. Garnish with lemon twist.

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*The key here is dry champagne and ice cold ingredients – the colder the better!

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Wedding Gift Ideas

July 17, 2014

Having been a bride, gift giving is pretty simple – get what is on the couple’s registry.  Starting a life together is hard enough as it is without having a bunch of stuff you don’t need/want, but between bridal showers, engagement parties, rehearsal dinners, bachelorettes, etc. the gifting can can get a little exhausting. So if the registry has been picked over or you don’t want to show up empty handed to a bridal brunch, here is my list of fun wedding gift options.

Photo Art

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While artwork is a pretty personal thing to shop for someone, Minted has a great variety of photo collages that you can create and customize.  They have a variety of collage layout options – hearts, words, states (where the couple met, lives, etc.) and a smaller format can be a really thoughtful and sentimental gift option.

Monogrammed Tray

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I’m not a die hard fan of monogramming, but when you get married there is something fun about your new initials and celebrating that.  This serving tray is a modern yet classic spin on a piece that you will be able to enjoy for years to come.  I’m also loving this, this, and these monogrammed gift ideas.

Luxury Food Items

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After months of celebration, returning from your honeymoon can be a bit of a let down – no more parties and usually an enforced budget to make up for your lack of savings account.  Due to the lack of wiggle room in your discretionary funds, it is nice to receive a luxurious gift that you would never buy yourself (but really really want to!).   I love William Sonoma’s specialty foods and their French Cheese collection is a great option for that (almost) newlywed couple in your life.

 Spa Gift Certificates 

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It’s stressful planning a wedding, and sometimes it’s nice to take a break.  While most of us cannot splurge on a full spa day for a friend, a gift certificate to a nail salon or foot massage spot can be a great little gift.

Wedding Keepsake Box 

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There are some things that are just better to be received as a gift, rather than buying it for yourself… this keepsake box falls under the category.  A super cute concept, and a fun thing to receive during the planning process.  Another cute idea could be a ring dish or this.

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How to Make a Wedding Binder

July 16, 2014

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After last year’s Wedding Week, my most asked question was – where did you get your wedding binder?  After multiple tutorial requests, I figured one was long overdue… so here we go!

  1. Get a binder. Bigger is better. I think I upgraded binder sizes 3 times. Save yourself the hassle and start with an 1.5 inch (at least).
  2. Create tabs. These will/can be different for everyone, plus they will evolve throughout the planning process (details on my tabs later).  I also created a table of contents at the front of my binder to help with navigation.
  3. Organize as you go. Whether you are half way through the planning process, or just beginning, take the paperwork you have (anything from magazine clippings you like, to the guest list) and give them a home in the binder.  I used plastic sleeves to hold loose clippings or smaller pieces of paper.  I also made sure that an extra copy of the invitation, program, etc. were all kept safe in the binder (my binder turned into a type of scrapbook by the end of the wedding!).
  4. Have a wedding Excel file. I had an ongoing Excel file up at all times to track RSVPs, wedding gifts, and attendance to various weddings events… I HIGHLY recommend you do the same.
  5. Keep current. I made sure to have updated lists, contracts, etc. filed and threw out old ones, as to not be confused.  Make sure that all inspiration is aligns with your final vision.  Started with a garden party theme and now want a more city chic approach? Get rid of anything that doesn’t match the final product.

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Ok so now onto the fun stuff… here were my tabs and what I included in each of them (please disregard any confusing tab names/contents… this is just what worked for me and my organization process):

Guest List

  • RSVP Guest List Spreadsheet – included RSVP tracking for all events (wedding, hotel, friday reception, welcome bags, etc.)
  • Gift Spreadsheet – kept track of all gifts and whether a thank you note had been sent yet or not
  • Address Spreadsheet – I kept track over everyone’s addresses and weather or not invites were sent out

Contract

  • CVR Contract – our copy of the contract (good to have at the front of the binder to review throughout the planning process)
  • BEO (Banquet Event Order) – our timing, menu requirements, room set-up, etc. were all listed here
  • Final Invoice – CVR’s final invoice statement
  • Budget Spreadsheet – I broke our budget down accordingly, and also tracked estimated, adjusted and actual costs, deposit amounts, payment due dates, fixed/fluctuating costs, etc.
  • Agenda – I had our itinerary overview listed out for the weekend
  • Vendor List – from ceremony location to our band, all vendors were listed in one place

Wrap-up

  • Checklist – CVR (our wedding location) provided a check-list that I stored here
  • Wedding Follow-up – I saved our list of notes/questions that we came prepared with for our last planning meeting, and tracked their changes/progress

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Timeline

  • Timeline – I had a minute by minute timeline prepared that included each and every detail – from when each vendor was arriving, to when the DJ would start playing for the reception.
  • To-Do List – I had every app known to man, but it was helpful to have an old fashioned to-do list (that I created/didn’t download) that had specific tasks I needed to do (i.e. order ice cream sandwiches, finalize welcome letters, get eyelash extensions)
  • Bridal Party Agenda – this was distributed to the bridal party at the beginning of the weekend and was a simple one sheet that contained where they needed to be for photos, event start times, and bridal party phone numbers
  • Checklist – I had a good ol’ downloaded off the internet checklist that broke things down according to time frame (12 months out, 9 months out, 1 day out, etc.)

Venue

  • Brochure/Pamphlet – I included a pamphlet from our venue (helpful in shopping various vendors our space)
  • Map – Venue map
  • Photos – enlarged photos of the space to help navigate our ceremony and reception locations

Friday Activity

  • Agenda – our wedding was a weekend affair, so I made sure to break down the activities for each day (including headcount, menus, etc.
  • Welcome Bag Count – I created a spreadsheet (SURPRISE) to pass off to the front desk for distribution with guest name/what the room was booked under/hotel name/etc.
  • Welcome Bag Collage – I used Publisher to create a collage of all of the items in the bag for an easy visual (pretzels, Advil, sunscreen, Shout wipes, Fruit Snacks, Pop Chips, etc.
  • Financials – I made sure to include receipts, contracts (for Friday’s dinner space), party bus invoice, etc. all in one spot

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Saturday Activities

  • Agenda – Saturday’s activities listed all in one place
  • Inspiration Collages – I used Publisher to put together images from my Pintrest boards all in one place.  I found this super helpful when working with vendors (florists, etc.) to help give them a vibe of where I wanted to go with decor

Miscellaneous

  • Clippings – I used this space to save my favorite magazine articles (favor ideas, honeymoon tips, etc.)
  • Collages – I also stored random inspiration collages for favors, bouquets, cake ideas, etc.
  • Honeymoon Itinerary 

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Ceremony

  • Details – Stored all ceremony details (officiant, favors, marriage license, program vendor, cocktail hour drinks, etc.)
  • Ceremony Decor Inspiration Collage
  • Favor Inspiration Collage
  • Program Design Collage – as well as program design, invoice, mock-ups, etc.
  • Favor Invoices

Cocktail Reception

  • Drink, Food & Decor Collages – Pintrest inspiration

Dinner Reception

  • Seating Chart
  • Reception & Table Decor Collage
  • Reception Menu 

Decor

  • Floral Inspiration Collage 
  • Florist Bid/Quote

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Music

  • DJ Survey/Planner
  • DJ Contract

Photo/Video

  • Photo Contract
  • Photo Schedule 

Attire

  • Bridal Party Collage
  • Dress/Suit Invoices – alteration slips, etc

Invitations

  • Invitations – mock-ups, final copies, etc.
  • Programs, Menus, etc.

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Once everything has a home, add a fun cover (I used Photoshop to create one that matched my invitations) and you will be ready to go! Happy planning!

 

Looks

Wedding Attire 101

July 15, 2014

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The other day I was reading about “20 things that change in your late 20’s” and one of them was the fact you should stop buying white dresses because you won’t have any place to wear them (in reference to the vast amount of weddings/wedding related events you’ll need to attend).  While I will always continue to buy white dresses, it did get me thinking about just WHAT you can wear to a wedding… here are my top 10 do’s and dont’s:

  1. Don’t wear white (even if the bride doesn’t care, chances are someone else will)
  2. Do wear a fun colored dress (bright coral, buttercup yellow, emerald green are all great options)
  3. Don’t wear anything too sexy (remember you are at a family event)
  4. Do dress time appropriate (don’t wear sequins to a day wedding or a sundress to an evening wedding)
  5. Don’t wear black (you want to make sure you don’t look like your going to a funeral, but a chic LBD should be fine)
  6. Do bring a sweater or shawl (churches or outdoor receptions can be cool)
  7. Don’t be afraid to wear prints (floral or stripes can be a fun option)
  8. Do look at the invite (invitations often will help guide dress code & any “themes” you need to adhere to)
  9. Don’t wear jeans (duh)
  10. Do think about your feet (between lawn ceremonies and dance parties, wedges and flat sandals are a great idea)

Here are some great dress options:


 

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Wedding Week!

July 14, 2014

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Two years doesn’t seem that long in the big scheme of life, but when I think about the fact that I’ve been married for two years today, I’m a little baffled.   It’s been an awesome two years – filled with a lot of learning, laughing and living.  I’m so thankful that I have such an awesome life partner who supports, provides, and motivates me, and while he doesn’t necessarily want to adopt my kale-loving ways anytime time soon, I couldn’t be luckier to have that man in my life.

Thank you babe for all that you do… I love you so much! xo

In honor of our anniversary – I want to kick off the 2nd Annual Wedding Week on LiL! For last year’s wedding week tips be sure to check out these posts: